Have you already put together your own sex bucket list or have you shied away from creating it? The reality is that sex is an entirely normal part of any adult’s life, and we’re more than allowed to enjoy it! So whether you’re just getting started in finding extra fun in the bedroom, or a seasoned pro looking to get a little more freaky with your partner, these sexy things to try in bed (and beyond) will add a little more spice to life. It’s up to you if you want to try them with your exclusive boo or incorporate them in your single lady’s life.
For something a tad tamer check out our Couple’s Bucket List.
A Fun Sex Bucket List of Sexual Things to Try in Bed
1. ✦ Find the G-spot
Well, this one should be a no-brainer for everyone. While the g-spot isn’t the only spot of pleasure for a woman, it is often considered the main one (I can see all you ladies nodding!). Thus, to get the best out of sex, whether it’s just you and your hand or your toys, or you’ve got a partner in bedsheets, it’s high time you got to work with finding the g-spot if you haven’t already! Trust me, you won’t regret this.
2. ✦ Wear a Blindfold
While it can sound a bit too kinky for comfort at first, introducing blindfolds to the bedroom is a simple but effective way to spice up your sex life. With the sense of sight out of the game, you can enhance your other senses, and your focus specifically shifts to feeling the sensual touches from your partner, likely heightening the pleasure you can get from them.
You can easily use a soft scarf from your wife’s closet or a tie from you boyfriends, or get a sexy silk blindfold.
3. ✧ Give a Lap Dance
Giving your partner a lap dance can be such a fun way for both of you to enjoy some fun and foreplay before actually taking things to the bedroom. And why not ask your partner to even return the favor! If you don’t know how to give a lap dance a lap dance guide will help!
4. ✧ Play Sexy Truth or Dare
Want to learn more about your partner and simultaneously have a bit of daring fun with them? Then a round or two of sexy truth or dare, with focus on intimate questions and tasks, could be exactly what your date needs in order to be perfect and sizzling hot.
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5. ✦ Shop for Lingerie Together
It can prove to be a great deal of fun to go out together to a lingerie shop to pick out the sexy outfit for your next date night, sort of like a foreplay of foreplay. Knowing there’ll be a special treat waiting for you two in the form of some new gorgeous lingerie can get you yearning for the evening to come with more anticipation than before.
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6. ✧ Talk Dirty
There are several reasons why you should add talking dirty into your list of things to try in bed. Though it may feel quite uncomfortable to use at first, it can actually challenge your conception of where your comfort’s boundaries truly are at. It can make for awesome foreplay and even unlock some sexual fantasies you didn’t know you wanted to have on your sex bucket list.
7. ✧ Have a Sexy Scavenger Hunt
Scavenger hunts are typically thought of as being more fitting for the family activities bucket list, but you can also enjoy them as an adult. For a special occasion or simply when you want to spice up your relationship a bit, you can take it up a notch by making it romantic, sexy and/or freaky. Leave clues in strategic places that are the best fit for your situation, and have the scavenger at the end of the hunt be an incredible and steamy night together.
If your struggling trying to find scavenger hunt ideas check out this easy romantic scavenger hunt.
8. ✦ Fulfill a Sexual Fantasy
Let’s face it, we all have a sexual fantasy of one kind or the other (mine involves a sexy fireman and a firehouse pole!), and typically acting it out is quite high on our sex bucket list. And playing out your sexual fantasy is one of the best things to do in bed when you’re looking to freshen up your sex life with your partner.
9. ✦ Have Phone Sex
Sometimes there will be moments when you’ll really want to get intimate with your partner, but for one reason or another you won’t be able to meet with them in person right then. So how about you do the dirty deed over the phone? It can be quite different from traditional sex as the only one actually touching you will be you, but your partner will be there in spirit, and in some ways this can actually up the level of intimacy between you two, in ways actual sex cannot.
10. ✧ Do a Little Role Playing
Perhaps you’ve already seen some variation of role playing in the bedroom in the TV shows and movies you watch? Following that idea, choose characters that best speak to you and your partner, and create some scenarios to play out in the bedroom for some additional freshness and spice in your love life.
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11. ✦ Get Nasty in the Hot Tub
A perfect ending to a romantic date is by taking the action to a steamy hot tub while it’s dark outside. Even better if you’re equipped with some champagne (or at least sparkling wine). Chilling in the hot tub with your partner, drinking some bubbly, is such a relaxing and simultaneously romantic activity.
12. ✧ Play With Body Paints
Not only are body paints a fun and unique way to enhance your sex life with your partner, they’re also delicious! The body paints made exactly for the purpose of using them in the bedroom are the type that can be eaten, coming in different fruity or chocolate flavors, among other options. Talk about the fun and pleasure coming off of letting your partner lick the body paints off you!
13. ✧ Play Naked Twister
Twister is likely not a new game for you, as it’s a game that’s been popular among both children and adults for decades now. If you’re still in the beginning stages of getting to know your date, playing twister can be an excellent way to get closer to one another. And if you’re already committed to each other – or looking to have exceptional fun – then throw your clothes in the corner and open a whole new dimension to your relationship by playing twister butt naked, getting entangled in each other’s bodies.
Ready to get started? Get your Twister game here!
14. ✦ Take a Bubble Bath Together
Bubble baths can be incredibly sensual and relaxing, even on your own! By having your partner join you in the bath adds another layer of romance to it, and it’s one of the most intimate ways you two can spend quality time with each other. Dare yourself to bring some champagne and strawberries to be enjoyed in the bath!
15. ✦ Play Strip Poker
Another fun way to get some new dimensions to your already existing relationship or to get physically closer to your new date is by playing strip poker together! What happens to the loser of the game is up to you and your game partner to decide 😉
16. ✧ Take Sexy Photos
Do you want to make your partner anticipate their next meeting with you? Then how about send them some sensual and sexy photos of you in some lingerie – or even less clothing than that. Alternatively, it might even be a fun activity to take some sexy photos together to keep as a memory.
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17. ✦ Shower Together
Similar to a bubble bath, showering together is an incredibly sensual and intimate activity, without having to actually be straightforwardly sexual. If you’re up for it, let your partner even wash you up with body wash.
18. ✦ Get Sexy in a New Location
Another creative way to add some excitement to your sex life is by taking the sex to a location you’ve never tried out before! As long as it’s legal, of course. If you don’t already have a few locations on your sex bucket list, now is high time to get to adding them and then move onto doing it in them!
19. ✦ Try a New Position
This is probably one of the easiest new things to try in bed! Do you or your partner have a sex position you’ve been longing to try? Now’s the time! Or, if you’re looking for tips and ideas, the internet is filled with them, so pop your laptop open and browse together for ideas – that alone can be a world of fun for you two!
A bonus addition to this sex bucket list is completing all of these 46 sexual positions for stimulation and stronger orgasms. Which one was your favorite?
20. ✧ Create a Sex Song Playlist
One of the simplest ways you could spice things up in the bedroom is by creating a playlist filled with songs you feel like best set the mood for some sexy times. You might even want to get creative enough and have that playlist move in progression with you and your partner’s sexy activities, beginning slow and romantic to build up the atmosphere, then moving along to whatever you’re hoping from the evening.
21. ✦ Add a Toy
If you haven’t yet tried out any toys, made specific for the bedroom purposes, now’s the time to stop missing out. They are excellent for pleasuring yourself when it’s just you and you alone, but you shouldn’t be afraid to also introduce them into the fun you’re having together with your partner.
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22. ✦ Be Tied Up or Tie Someone Up
Now here’s a steamy one! It may sound nerve-wrecking at first since it includes forfeiting your control and trusting your partner to treat you right while tied up, but it can be oh-so sexy and truly some of the most fun sex you’ll have when done with the right person. In exchange, your partner may be willing to let you tie them up, too! Either way, it’s definitely one of the freaky items not to be missed on your sex bucket list.
23. ✦ Have a Quickie
To clarify, quickie means short-lasting sex. For some it doesn’t sound that desirable, but there are surprisingly many positive effects to it, besides just the fact it’s sex that can be done when you’re short on time. For example, it’s great for relieving stress, which in turn has several positive health effects. It can also help you sleep and even offer a boost in confidence. A quickie could be just what you need!
24. ✦ Add Food to the Mix
I’ve already mentioned edible body paints earlier, but playing in bed with actual food is totally possible as well. Whipped cream is an especially popular choice, as are body shots, but really it’s up to you to be creative with your choices. Fruits, chocolate and popsicles can be a good place to start from in addition to the whipped cream!
25. ✧ Join the Mile-High Club
The Mile-High Club is reserved for those who have gotten steamy and sexy on an airplane, typically in the airplane bathroom. This one is a bit more risqué and frowned upon, but there’s a reason why it’s such a famous sex bucket list item to try. Do you think you’ll dare to try?
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These fun and sexy items to add to your sex bucket list are only the beginning for all the ways you can get creative and unlock new layers to your sex and love lives. If this post got your fantasies and imaginations flowing, it’s time to grab your partner immediately and go cross off an item or two—then come back for more.
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