Hey! I’m Annette, the author of the book Bucket List Adventures, the co-owner of Sugo Trattoria, a serial adventurer and creator of the award-winning travel blog, Bucket List Journey. Phew! That’s a mouthful. As an obsessed new experience collector, my passion is for checking the world off my bucket list one adventure at a time.
I like puppies, fuzzy socks and jammy red wine too.
About My Anxiety & Fear
Just like so many people, I suffered from severe anxiety and countless fears that put some serious limitations on living the life that I was meant to live. I had all the classic symptoms; tunnel vision, panic attacks, body shakes, you name it, I had it. I was pretty much known as the “regular” at the emergency room—which is not embarrassing at all (sarcasm speaking!).
After about 20 years and hundreds of missed opportunities there was a moment that I was curled up on the floor of my bedroom and I looked in the mirror and it became instantly clear that the woman staring back at me was not the woman I was meant to be. My heart wanted adventure and travel and experiencing new things. But, that was not what was happening—not by a long shot! I was tired of the restrictions fear was placing on my life and, in that very moment, I was finally ready to do something about it.
If you are interested in how I tackled my anxiety read my 8 Tips to Facing Your Fears.
The Life-Changing Promises
In that painful moment I made two life-changing promises to myself, the first was to never let fear make my decisions for me and the second was to start living my bucket list by taking at least one step towards my goals every day. From then on when an opportunity presented itself and I wanted to say no (which was almost all the time!), I always asked myself if that negative is the voice of fear.
90% of the time it is fear speaking.
In that case, I vowed to turn that no into a yes. That promise, along with the dedication to living my bucket list, has led me to making travel and checking off my bucket list a second career, in addition to having the best experiences all over the world.
The Bucket List Adventures
Since challenging my fear, I have gone piranha fishing in the rainforest rivers of Guyana, swam with thousands of jellyfish in Palau, went on safari in Africa, rappelled down a hundred foot waterfall, fed a stingray, zip-lined through the Costa Rican rain forest, kayaked with beluga whales in Manitoba and even fed some swimming pigs in the Bahamas. Yes, I said swimming!
I have also hiked an active volcano in Guatemala, bathed elephants at a rescue in Chiang Rai, went tidal bore rafting (Google it!) in Nova Scotia and flew through the sky on a trapeze…unfortunately, without the greatest of ease. You can also see the top of my head in a Bollywood movie (don’t be jealous) and I once put on my big girl panties to give blood.
Wherever there is a new adventure, I am surely not too far behind.
The Handsome Hubby
This is my husband Peter (AKA: Petey Chops):
He thinks he is just another character in my story. Admittedly, he is the main extra in many articles on this blog and especially in my life. Plus, I find it really amusing to make him do weird things that he absolutely does not want to do, like eating bugs in Thailand, drinking out of a baby bottle at a themed restaurant in Tokyo and zorbing in Spain.
It must not be all that bad, he has stayed married to me for over 21 whopping years! We have no kids or pets, but we do own a restaurant and have lots of employees. They are like having kids sometimes.
When I am not traveling the world and making checks off my bucket list (or finding new items for yours), you can find me creating delicious food at our Italian restaurant, Sugo Trattoria that we have owned for over 10 years. It is a casual restaurant that marries the traditions of the old world with the food culture of Sonoma County, California. Taking inspiration from the artfully hand crafted pastas, sauces and cured meats of Italy and integrating these recipes with local ingredients and California sensibility.
There, I wear many hats: I am a chef, prep cook, part-time psychologist, accountant and sometimes even the dishwasher (not my happy day). If you just so happen to be in Petaluma stop by to say hi and definitely eat our signature dish–the bruschetta trio.
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It is not only important to me to live my very best life, but it’s also important to be able to share what I have learned so others can possibly live theirs. I hope in some way you will be inspired to create you dream life, by picturing your ideal future and then taking the steps necessary to go out there and get it.
Dream it. Do it.
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5 Petaluma Blvd. S, Unit B
Petaluma, CA 94952